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March 27th, 2012
09:37 am - Theresa
After i returned from Singapore i tried to meet Theresa again. She invided me over for dinner with friends which ended up that i stayed at her place over the night. The whole evening seemed a bit like a set up... (her friends stopped me from going and more or less forced me to stay :) )
Now, oh well... since we both were traveling a lot, we didn't see each other too much in Feb. but now we see each other more or less every night.
She has several issues which i still don't know how i will cope with:
1. Winter sports fanatic, hiking and climbing...
2. A bit unconcentrated / chaotic / clumsy (but only compared to me)
The rest: Gemini, very intelligent, direct, perfect body (a bit thin but quite muscular), likes sex a lot :)
Let's see how it turnes out.
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09:20 am - End of 2011 / Start of 2012
The last months of 2011 were quite relaxed. I worked far less then the rest of the year and i also changed my Boss! I applied for bpe department, the job won't change but is more innovation oriented. End of 2011 i planed to go to Brasil, but since it didn't work out i went to Barbados with Mr P... In details:
Woman:
Marina moved to another city. I only saw her once peronally since then when she stayed half a week at my place. A very sex intensive time :)
I got got know 19y old Marie. Actress, bitchy but a bit introverted. But she's not into me, i guess i'm too old.
I also became closer to zhanna but i don't know what to do with her.
Work:
I changed the department to BPE and tried to work less in Q4 which worked out perfectly.
Holiday / Travels:
I took 4 weeks of holiday and spent them in stuttgart and in barbados. Flew out 22nd December to spent christmas and also new years eve and the first week of 2012 together with Mr P.
Barbados is very very save and peoply are very layed back.
Everybody seems to be selling drugs, and all have their own way :) ("Are you looking for your bob marley?")
As Mr P. missed his flight i spent xmas alone. I welcomed him on 26 3:30am with rum and coconut water.
We had a catamaran boat cruise which was very nice (free drinks and food and perfect weather).
After the cruise we stumbled into a capoeira roda which i of course entered drunk :)
We visited The Cave which was boring, but of the time we stayed on the beach.
I attended two capoeira trainings.
The day before new years eve i stopped smoking... again ;)
New years eve, we spent at a bad american style party but drrunk i also entered a salsa party with a very attractive russian girl which turned out to be a hooker...
which ended by running from the club since i wouldn't have been able to pay the pimp... and also didn't want to pay for a bit dancing and kissing.
One day we went surfing... with amazingly boring but pretty waves. Also we visited Mount Gay Rum Distillery an my last day.
After my return i spent two nights home before leaving for Singapore.
The first night i had a very nice evening with zhanna. The next day a not so nice lunch with Marie and afterwards spontaniously a very nice evening with Theresa (until 5am in aregato).
Hung over i flew to Singapore.
In Singapur i stayed in a hotel near the big shopping mall street orchard road. But with the jetlag i didn't do much the first week but working.
The coworkers were surprisingly capable and friendly.
On thurstay we had dinner at Marina Bay Sands (one fullerton) which has one of the most amazing city views i have seen so far.
All in all until then Singapur seemed not like asia but rather an asian switzerland with futuristic buildings. It's very clean and has few crime.
On Friday evening i went to a capoeira class where i got to know Alexandra (Chinese Malay).
On Saturday i went to crowded Santosa in a rushed guided tourist tour.
On Sunday i had breakfast with colleagues (Krishna and Ed Min) and spend the afternoon with krishna talking about life. In the evening i went ot the night safarie.
This one was really besides it was again to crowded.
Monday i changed my hotel to the cheapest hotel in Singapore. In the middle of geylang the biggest red light district in Singapore where prostitution is legal and goverment controlled.
Hookers in the streed are forbidden as well as gay sex. What a coincident my hotel was in lorong 16 where all the lady boys try to do business....
Also i visited china town, little india, harbor front and early evening clark quay.
Tuesday i went to the botanic gardens which are really amazing and had dinner and again a nice evening with Alexandra, it ended when we decided to go shopping at 1am in Mustafa, the place which hass everything :)
(well it hasn't but it has much). Since we were drunk and didn't really find the stuff i was looking for we met again next day. A pitty i couldn't stay longer....
The way home was very smooth, good flight, everying on time.
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August 8th, 2011
02:38 am - Things to not forget (Sex)
I missed mentioning that i am 30 now. I didn't celebrate.
Tonight i had a second one night stand with Sophia. It was nice!
Yesterday a close friend who tried to kiss me in the presence of her bf which i refused and i gor insulted for that :O. She told me that i'm a bitch and she asked me with whom i didn't have sex in the location... i guess she was on drugs...
But nevertheless i'm thinking with whom i had sex:
1. Julia 1998. Girl in Judo course. First Relationship (~9 Months),First sex, First time afraid of becoming father. Crazy, suizidal.
2. Diana 1999. Second Relationship (~2 Years). Girl from another town i met on our excursion to London in 12th grade. We first made out on a new comer contest concert in which Linus (Clemi) performed.
2.1 2000. Lydia. Sziget Pepsi festival. Doesn't really count since no "real" sex was involved. Made out several times also in Germany.
3. Elisabeth 2001. Third relationship (~3 Years). Met her after the funeral of a friend who died in a metro accident. Left me for Jochen two weeks after she moved to Berlin. They have a baby now and seem happy.
4. Amanda 2005. Vacations in Atlanta with Daniel. Party. Affaire until i left.
5. Mariel 2005?. One weekend stand. Best weekend ever, after i rocked the second last and hardest exam in my studies. Went to sauna and then jeay :). Playing fiddle. I loved her but she didn't love me :(
6. Schu 2005. Fourth relationship (2-3 years). Started as an affaire. Second best weekend in Rome. My perfect woman. Ended as an affaire. Still close friends.
7. Sandrine 2009. French girl, capoeirista. Savoire vivre. Good times as compensation for schu.
8. Marina 2010. A friend with extras... still is. Almost a relationship. But open ;) She compensates her ex bf and still has sex with him if she in Berlin.
9. Anne 2010. The perfect femme fatal. French, Agressive, best judge of character i now. Wow, what a woman. Had no problems that i continued with Marina. Too bad i left her for Katharina. I should have married her.
10. Katharina 2010. First girl i loved since Schu. Nice girl, good person. In the end i didn't get her.
11. Sophia 2011. Dances Forro. Lives in the Netherlads. Two one night stands (one right now). Compensates her ex bf.
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August 4th, 2011
10:06 am - Q3
In this quarter i had my first holiday since my Brazil trip. I went to Biscarrosse with my colleague "H" and several of his friends. We rented a house near the beach. Surfing, Drinking, Reading, Slack-Lining. The main trouble was the we had rain on 9 of 14 days. Quite relaxed i returned.
A good thing about my travel south a lot is that i can visit Halima quite often which now lives near Munique.
Sunday on forro there visited various important people: Halima (now in Munique), Anne (one of the girls in 2010, now in Zurich), Schu (Ex, but still the best :) ), Sophia (living in the Netherlands). Sophia got off with me that night.
Yesterday we delivered one of our projects and (facts are not related) Markus cooked a big dinner. His sister, her friend and also Sandrine joind.
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09:58 am - First half of 2011
When i came back from Brazil end of January the year didn't start nice. The girl i was still in love found somebody else during my holiday but instead of telling me acted strange. I was very upset and also angry with her for "misbehaving". It took several months to get to a decent basis with her again. Today we meet as friends though.
Also my phone company didn't want to pay back the money they owe me! Up to now they haven't.
I was transfered to a customer in the middle of nowhere south of germany. I.e. driving up to 1000km a week. The job itself is cool but the location is really annoying me. In April i told my bosses to transfer me somewhere else but they didn't. Instead i work in several projects now. There and in my hometown. The first 4 months though were really pissing me off and i'm still sad abouth this waste of private time.
I started an internal project to create a better project proceeding. This annoyed my boss even more but the director liked the idea and gave me 20 days from which i used ~4.
The first half on 2011 got me a bit depressed. The girl i dated in 2010("M") helped me a lot :)
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09:44 am - From Memories
Well, i didn't write about my trip to Brazil in January. I'll write it now from memory.
End of december i flew to Rio staying at the house of "the P brothers" Grandma in Urca. Passed New Years Eve with them including visiting Copacabana after 4am which was a total wreck, filthy, everyone pissing where they stood and with the rain not directly a nice place, 9am sugar loaf was perfect, sunny, drunk :) Having a cold and infected toe afterwards.
Flew to Recife / Olinda, spent one week traveling Pernambuco with my capeoira mestre and his family, driving around with a jeep, dancing, going to the beach, etc.
Flew to Sao Paolo staying at "the P brothers" parent's house. Dancing, meeting with friends i know from capoeira, buying stuff to make berimbau and helped to make them.
Packed with berimbaus, traveled to Niteroi for the wedding of Daniel. Very nice party! Stayed more days in Niteroi and finally traveled back home.
Side Note: The misconduct of A.
A is a guy from capeoira which is getting on my nerves with his sheer presence. He was also traveling Brasil at that time and i met him at several occasions which didn't make my holiday better.
"A" joined the new years eve party uninvited, his sole gift was some chocolate. "A" didn't want to party in Rio, nor in Recife. "A" disappeared with the keys to our hostel room letting me waiting for 2h in the evening inside a hostel. "A" didn't catch his flight in Recife costing me 8h of my holiday. "A" appeared uninvited at the wedding of Daniel with a small bunch of flowers as a present. :O
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December 5th, 2010
07:09 pm - Good times and bad times
Looking back, September i had somewhat of a manic phase in my life.
I decided a lot of things like to break up with my two affairs, having my eyes lasered, getting a tattoo, trying to get into another project at work, managing my project better than my project manager... so that's now what the status is after 3 Months:
1. I still don't have a relationship with the other girl. The whole thing is extremely frustrating me since i can't really let her go and on the other hand feeling bad more or less every time i see her and also feeling bad if i can't see her because she doesn't want to see me "often enough".
Two weeks after i broke up with the two i recognized my error. But here i'm now! :(
In November i restarted to see one of them again :p The other is moving to Zürich and i think i should have married her.
2. My eyes are not perfect but ok. I can see 100% but light sources are problematic, which makes driving at night dangerous.
3. I still have no tattoo since the girl i asked to do a design didn't want to.
4. I got another project in stuttgart which was nice but since i annoyed my boss i am sent away to Bonn to work for the german postal service.
-> I guess next year i won't be working in my hometown any more but hop between different projects. And that's i guess because i angered my project manager by doing her job :(
Well, off to Bonn. Let's see how this ends... in two weeks :)
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September 11th, 2010
11:27 am - What the future brought...
The "releationship" with the girl i met in July does still not exist, but i'm still hunting her. She is very funny, but since she left her bf just a short time ago she keeps her distance. She intellectually decided to not have a relation ship and i respect that.
On the other hand, she doesn't want to be "one of three" so i ended my affairs just yesterday.
A thing that makes me hope is that i already stayed three nights at her place :) without having sex :p. But we keep chatting almost every day.
Tomorrow i'll meet her again.
I decided to get my eyes lasered. I decided about the motive of a tatoo i'd like to have.
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July 13th, 2010
06:21 pm - Seem like a good year (Capoeira)
This year was the 10th year jubilee of my capoeira organization. I was promoted to the rank of "Graduado".
The games during the batizado roda were nice (Mestre Sorriso - Senzala, Mestre Paulao - Quilombolas de Luz, Professor Busca Longe - Muzenza) but also rough (at least with Busca Longe).
Later i had a nice game with Cabeca (which ended in wrestling on the floor... which i won) and a awesome game with C.M. Batata. I hope this was recorded on video.
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06:09 pm - Seem like a good year (Holiday)
I've been again to LA to visit my good friend Mr P :)
The weather was not too nice but ok... who has the opportunity to see the desert so green.
We visited Las Vegas, an amazing city which lot's of decadent institutions like themed underground "outdoor" malls, call girl promoter merchandise, go-go-dancers on roulette tables, outdoor shows (like pirate fights and volcanos)...
I noticed that it's good to NOT have a relationship which doesn't believe me that i went to bed before 11pm ;)
Mr P and me were both in the need of a real relaxing holiday so we didn't party much...
Nevertheless i went again to the school of Mestre Boneco, had a nice training and a game with one of his instructors who i threw from the roda.
Also we went to a shooting range where i fired a gun the first time in my life!
The next planned holiday is Brazil (in December)
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